![]() Action Step: Stop and ask yourself “Right now what is it that I desire?”įor me, it’s definitely financial freedom, because I’ve been a slave to my debt for far too long. (or Ms.) Right, then action is imperative. You must take action to see the change is also so powerful! If you dream of that promotion, degree, career change, financial freedom, losing that weight, finding Mr. And if you’re dreaming of so much more for yourself, but you don’t change the variables, those dreams will float away. ![]() That’s saying that if you accept your life as it is now, then don’t expect anything different. Let that sink in for a moment, because I had to let it do that for me as well. The woman they interviewed said: Nothing changes if nothing changes. I was listening to the Often Ambitious podcast the other day, and a quote stuck out to me as I was driving. That’s what will happen, and if you’re cool with that, then that’s totally amazing! But if you’re not, and you’re wondering what else is out there for you, then your comfort zone has GOT to go! ![]() ![]() What happens if you stay in your comfort zone? And frankly, they’re things I need to be reminded of on the regular too. So I have a few words of wisdom to share. If the gains outweigh the losses, then my friend you’re doing yourself a disservice to ignore it. I think the best way to describe it is saying I asked myself what I had to lose versus what I had to gain. And I literally can’t explain in words how I went from 0 to 100 so fast, but I did. This past month I made a GIANT decision to start a new business, which I didn’t see coming. That would mean that I’d have missed out on the best friendships EVER, the chance to travel and see the world, to dig deep and find myself, and so much more. To think back on my biggest decisions and then wonder what if I’d not done them breaks my heart. If there’s anything I’ve learned in my 30-some (yes, let’s keep it vague) years on this planet, it’s that all the good $#!t in life exists outside of your comfort zone. Seriously, when you accept your life is “comfortable”, then the idea of doing anything outside of this comfort zone is terrifying.īut what if whatever lies outside of this zone could be completely life changing too? And I know it needs to be said, because I’ve said it to myself: Get out of your own damn way! I really hate to tell you this, but frankly it needs to be said. If you’re even a tad like I’ve been, one thing you tell yourself on the regular is “I’m tired.” Or maybe it’s your own flavor of that with an “I’m completely exhausted.” “I have no energy.”įriend, it’s time to cut the crap. How f*cking exciting is that thought?! That your dreams can actually be a possibility! But just what if I can still make some big dreams a reality? Okay so maybe I’ll never be a ballerina or backup singer for Tom Jones (that last one is an adult dream). And when I entered the adult world, it’s like I thought that those things weren’t for me anymore. I think back to when I was a kid, and it blows my mind all the things I wanted for myself. But I’m here to tell you that by living in your comfort zone, it is 100% killing your dreams. That makes me super sad, and I think we actually think that maybe this is how life is supposed to feel…just okay. There’s an incredibly large number of people in this world who simply aren’t living their best life. Okay that sounds a wee bit dramatic, I’ll give you that, but it’s really not.
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